What I learned from a close reading of Judges.
We can see where both the older "ban it always" approach and the younger "cover this too in grace" approach are coming from.
Do I think God specially placed that conch in the sand for me to find? No. But do I think He knew it was there all along AND knew I would enjoy discovering it? Yes. Oh, how He loves me.
Most Christians believe atheists could learn a lot from us. But we could probably learn a lot more from them.
What churches could learn from movements that motivate young people and make a difference in our nation - just like churches used to.